Chris brown mistake that could have been avoided

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Chris Brown sits Down with Sway From MTV and explains his side of the story . But Chris you should have let her (Rhianna) Just talk your doing one of those Kanye West Move.

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His Break Up Lines Are - What ?

Every relationship goes through some bad times. We all have our ups and downs,falling in and out of love. We have our best friends to confide in and they have their problems as well. This is part of growing up. We learn from our mistakes and some just don't. Now that you have met this guy and he's all that and a grape soda. He's got that nice whip and has a job, he dresses well and he treats you like you want to be treated. Sometimes it doesn't last .He may see some one while you guys are out and he may flirt when he thought that you didn't see him. Or his ex may have left a sultry message on his cell phone. What ever the case maybe ,he may just do things for you guys to break up. No break up is easy and it does cause bad feelings between the two of you. When it's the final moment when he knows that he is about to break up with you he may resort to old standards. Guys can come up with lame excuses and sometimes they will make you believe that it was your fault. Here are some of the break up lines that he may throw at ya. at least you will know some of them. 1. "it's not you : it's me" His translation is really "it's not me : it's you! ladies , Id say about one third of men admit that they're lying when they want to break up the relationship. You know they try to soften the blow a bit making sure that they assure you ,that your a good person, and they want to take the blame but really blame you. They just want to hid the fact that they can't be truthful. They're saying that you may be right for someone else instead of them . You know they're right . You are probably better off with someone else. "I'm not ready for a relationship right now " His translation is really WHHHHHHHOAAa baby ,slow down ! most guys get frightened when you tell them "I never felt this way about anyone before" They are frightened silly it's not that they don't want to be with you but some are not really ready to get serious. Some take it as your getting ready to plan your wedding. I am sure your not planing this with this guy ,or are you ? Well any way he thinks your moving too fast for him and his speed. Can I call you sometime ? His translation is really ! If your lonely around 3 am can I come over. he may not be that crass but he wants to keep the door open , He doesn't want your ex stopping by and sampling his cookies. You all know what I mean. He wants to hang on if things don't work out with him. He's no dummy ,so you have to be on top of your game with this one! "I still care about you" His translation is really Don't let your friends know that I'm a jerk. I'm pretty sure that his friends and your s already know that he is a big fool to ever leave you. Now I'm assuming that your that special girl that is friendly and everyone likes you. Your a good person . He probably cares about you ,but he wants his cake and eat it too, and you should but with someone Else's time not yours. Believe me he is shameful some how, especially in front of his boys. Well you hold the key to your happiness and don't let anyone take that from you . Be Well !

How to Mend After a Break Up- The 4 Rules

After your relationship ends, or your going through a divorce, The idea of getting back out to the dating world can be frightening to you and your children .Taking time to heal, is the best way to mend after a breakup . You have to be mentally and emotionally prepared to date again. This is the most important parts, of dating, after you have split from your partner. This can be quite dramatic ,especially if children are involved. They suffer as well, so be careful with the decision that you make. If you and your ex had been together for sometime, children don't adapt too fast to a break up. This is where you need the help of a therapist and family members for support. Take each day as it comes. When your ready to get back out there into the dating world you will know ! Divorce ,or any other break up can put a toll on a person's self-esteem. You might blame yourself for the break up, feel that your a failure, or wonder where did you go wrong. It can really drag you through the mud. Only time will heal what you are feeling . Go and do something for yourself. Feeling guilty is not the way ,especially if your not the one who started the break up. So build your self-esteem do the things that you like to do. Get the girls and do the spa thing. If your a male get with your buddies. Getting out and about is good . You won't run into Brad Pitt or Angelina jolie hanging around the house. (there's a slim chance that you will anyhow) You have to get back out there and join the crowd. Ask some of your friends if they know any available single people. Just having fun helps out . Maybe try online dating, be careful when doing this. The more dates you go on, not only builds your confidence you have that chance of meeting that someone special. So grab your friends and have fun. If children are involved, this is hard for them too. You have to consider their feelings. Let the children know that they are not to blame for the break up . Helping children cope with a divorce is hard work. Be prepared to answer all questions. Go to a therapist and have one on one with family members to help you. There is support and help . Be patient when you bring a new mate around children. this may take sometime, but you can do it . Yes you can !!