The struggling Economy, how To Survive.

Some of us even lost our jobs, homes, cars the list goes on. We are trying to keep what little we do have Some take jobs that really can't pay all the bills, but it is a help! Our children should not feel the fruit of that labor. Well here are some tips that maybe can help you and your family. I've tried this and it seems to work . Friends, as long as it helps and doesn't get you in any trouble, why not.get together with your household family members. Get your pen and paper out have someone do the writing. This step you will first discuss what can we eliminate or cut down on price wise. Most of us have cell phones . You may want to get a family plan. A plan that will help cut down on over spending. If you don't need your house phone turn that off. Most of us use our cell phones anyway. Step2 You can cut down on electricity by washing clothes in the evening times. Also, you can set a day that everybody washes. If your not a person who gets dirty . You can take off your good clothes when you arrive home. This helps especially if your not going back out. If you love to entertain , have some friends bring over a covered dish . If the weather is nice you can BBQ that cuts down using the stove. Step3 There are so many meals that you can make that are not expensive . Ask your family members what they will like to eat for two weeks . So you plan your meals and this helps by cutting down your grocery list. Remember, only get what you need don't buy any unnecessary stuff. If you love to go to the movies that can be quite expensive with the tickets and all . If your a family of 4 or more, you can have movie night at home . There are good family movies that are a delight to watch. Pop some popcorn . You know the jiffy or whatever brand you like. This is a good way to spend good quality time with the family. You can also play family games as well. I hope this will help some . Remember ! things will get better

Being Sexy At 46 ! The Real You

Whether it's taking care of our family, working late. You have to find time for ourselves. Where am I , you might be saying to yourself ? Everybody needs me ! What about you? YOU need to find you!. NO body can't find you if you can't. So lets start to find ourselves and enhance ourselves a little bit

Step1 getting started Let's get started on ways that we can improve ourselves. You will want to make sure that this is what I need to do. Don't get started and never finish. You have to be aware of obstacles that will come your way. There is always something that will get in our way ,when we want to do something good for ourselves. It just makes you mad when you don't have that me time. This is important ! So now that you know that you are ready to start taking care of yourself Get to it! Step2 treat yourself like a precious flower. Indulge in yourself, you will feel better when you only think about you for a minute. There is no one, or thing ,that can keep you down. Have that I am sexy ,I look good attitude . Go to the hair dresser once or twice a month, or have that best friend that who know how to do hair hook you up. Have fun ! Go and buy you that nice outfit that you were looking at. You can look good even if you don't spend a lot of money. there are was to look expensive ,but knowing that you didn't spend a whole lot. go out with your friends , get into a good bible based church. Give god all the glory . Ladies we may have a struggling economy but in god's heaven there's no recession there. Stop worrying and take a day at a time . When you feel good spiritually you look good in and out. It shows and people will notice. smell the roses Now take time out , do all the good things that won't harm you . Keep god first and stay true to yourself. Be confident , let your inner beauty shine and be humble.

His Break Up Lines Are - What ?

Every relationship goes through some bad times. We all have our ups and downs,falling in and out of love. We have our best friends to confide in and they have their problems as well. This is part of growing up. We learn from our mistakes and some just don't. Now that you have met this guy and he's all that and a grape soda. He's got that nice whip and has a job, he dresses well and he treats you like you want to be treated. Sometimes it doesn't last .He may see some one while you guys are out and he may flirt when he thought that you didn't see him. Or his ex may have left a sultry message on his cell phone. What ever the case maybe ,he may just do things for you guys to break up. No break up is easy and it does cause bad feelings between the two of you. When it's the final moment when he knows that he is about to break up with you he may resort to old standards. Guys can come up with lame excuses and sometimes they will make you believe that it was your fault. Here are some of the break up lines that he may throw at ya. at least you will know some of them. 1. "it's not you : it's me" His translation is really "it's not me : it's you! ladies , Id say about one third of men admit that they're lying when they want to break up the relationship. You know they try to soften the blow a bit making sure that they assure you ,that your a good person, and they want to take the blame but really blame you. They just want to hid the fact that they can't be truthful. They're saying that you may be right for someone else instead of them . You know they're right . You are probably better off with someone else. "I'm not ready for a relationship right now " His translation is really WHHHHHHHOAAa baby ,slow down ! most guys get frightened when you tell them "I never felt this way about anyone before" They are frightened silly it's not that they don't want to be with you but some are not really ready to get serious. Some take it as your getting ready to plan your wedding. I am sure your not planing this with this guy ,or are you ? Well any way he thinks your moving too fast for him and his speed. Can I call you sometime ? His translation is really ! If your lonely around 3 am can I come over. he may not be that crass but he wants to keep the door open , He doesn't want your ex stopping by and sampling his cookies. You all know what I mean. He wants to hang on if things don't work out with him. He's no dummy ,so you have to be on top of your game with this one! "I still care about you" His translation is really Don't let your friends know that I'm a jerk. I'm pretty sure that his friends and your s already know that he is a big fool to ever leave you. Now I'm assuming that your that special girl that is friendly and everyone likes you. Your a good person . He probably cares about you ,but he wants his cake and eat it too, and you should but with someone Else's time not yours. Believe me he is shameful some how, especially in front of his boys. Well you hold the key to your happiness and don't let anyone take that from you . Be Well !

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How to Trust Your Lover And Not Spy

Hey guys did you know 85% of women who suspect that their mates are cheating are right? The gut feeling that women have is so strong among us are far stronger than among men Who are right most of the time about a cheating partner about half the time. 1. Step 1 Confront your partner but do it in a mild way Spying a gut feeling that just don't justify a couple's behavior. Research has shown that couple's who spy on each other rarely stay together. If you find yourself spying on your mate your relationship is already in trouble. 2. Step 2 people love to play out their fantasies Cell phones track all of your partners calls and text messages . ( you know that most of us has peeked , every now and then You know who you are stop playing) . Email and IM and blogs, most of us offer another world for many of us to play out our most deepest desires and other parts of personalities . You all know what I mean . 3. Step 3 kids are effected by this also ! Spying is a sign that your relationship has deteriorated , or never what is should have been the first place. Most times when we catch our mate cheating, we have the will to break up and leave that person. Others have a harder time doing so. Sometimes kids are involved and we don't want to break up the home. You have to do what's right and make it right. Try talking to your mate and find a solution and work hard to fix it. If your truly in love and have trust there should not be any suspicion . Try going out and away and talk to one another and find out what are you and your partner fears. Be Well !

How to Mend After a Break Up- The 4 Rules

After your relationship ends, or your going through a divorce, The idea of getting back out to the dating world can be frightening to you and your children .Taking time to heal, is the best way to mend after a breakup . You have to be mentally and emotionally prepared to date again. This is the most important parts, of dating, after you have split from your partner. This can be quite dramatic ,especially if children are involved. They suffer as well, so be careful with the decision that you make. If you and your ex had been together for sometime, children don't adapt too fast to a break up. This is where you need the help of a therapist and family members for support. Take each day as it comes. When your ready to get back out there into the dating world you will know ! Divorce ,or any other break up can put a toll on a person's self-esteem. You might blame yourself for the break up, feel that your a failure, or wonder where did you go wrong. It can really drag you through the mud. Only time will heal what you are feeling . Go and do something for yourself. Feeling guilty is not the way ,especially if your not the one who started the break up. So build your self-esteem do the things that you like to do. Get the girls and do the spa thing. If your a male get with your buddies. Getting out and about is good . You won't run into Brad Pitt or Angelina jolie hanging around the house. (there's a slim chance that you will anyhow) You have to get back out there and join the crowd. Ask some of your friends if they know any available single people. Just having fun helps out . Maybe try online dating, be careful when doing this. The more dates you go on, not only builds your confidence you have that chance of meeting that someone special. So grab your friends and have fun. If children are involved, this is hard for them too. You have to consider their feelings. Let the children know that they are not to blame for the break up . Helping children cope with a divorce is hard work. Be prepared to answer all questions. Go to a therapist and have one on one with family members to help you. There is support and help . Be patient when you bring a new mate around children. this may take sometime, but you can do it . Yes you can !!

How to do Fellatio

Fellatio is the technical name . Others have their on choice of words or phrases that they use. Guys love it so much that they don't care how you do it. they know if your about to do the act they get pretty excited and can't wait . This will make him so happy .# step 1 Whether you use the technical term Fellatio or call it a blow job, or going down on your man. This act requires a lot trust and some knowledge. Most men don't need to much stimulation , others may. You know your lover better than anyone else. So you know what he likes and know how to please him. Fellatio can be slow, fast, and so seductive that he will just explode with delight. # Step 2 When doing fellatio, you want your man to be clean. You both can shower and bathe together and you know that he is clean. Being clean is what most women worry about . They worry about taste and smell. That is why you want your man to be clean. Knowing your man is clean makes you feel comfortable. # Step 3 Give him a lick. Follow up with your tongue exploring him with slow wide strokes you will hear him quiver with delight. Use all the saliva you got girl this makes it easier for you to go down on his joystick. This is a natural lube and makes it easier for both of you . Now when doing the job make sure that you are comfortable and so is he. have him sit down and you kneel in front of him. Using a pillow may help your knees. If your partner is getting ready to come and if your not the one to swallow jump up and ride that horse and pour that juice in your cup You know what I mean Have fun Be Well !