Monday, June 15, 2009

How to Trust Your Lover And Not Spy

Hey guys did you know 85% of women who suspect that their mates are cheating are right? The gut feeling that women have is so strong among us are far stronger than among men Who are right most of the time about a cheating partner about half the time. 1. Step 1 Confront your partner but do it in a mild way Spying a gut feeling that just don't justify a couple's behavior. Research has shown that couple's who spy on each other rarely stay together. If you find yourself spying on your mate your relationship is already in trouble. 2. Step 2 people love to play out their fantasies Cell phones track all of your partners calls and text messages . ( you know that most of us has peeked , every now and then You know who you are stop playing) . Email and IM and blogs, most of us offer another world for many of us to play out our most deepest desires and other parts of personalities . You all know what I mean . 3. Step 3 kids are effected by this also ! Spying is a sign that your relationship has deteriorated , or never what is should have been the first place. Most times when we catch our mate cheating, we have the will to break up and leave that person. Others have a harder time doing so. Sometimes kids are involved and we don't want to break up the home. You have to do what's right and make it right. Try talking to your mate and find a solution and work hard to fix it. If your truly in love and have trust there should not be any suspicion . Try going out and away and talk to one another and find out what are you and your partner fears. Be Well !

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